Introduction 

In today’s rapidly evolving society, the landscape of relationships/ marriages is undergoing profound changes. Traditional notions of commitment and partnership are being redefined in the face of technological advancements, shifting cultural norms, and evolving socioeconomic dynamics. The discussion held during coffee bar session on April 16th, 2024, provided a platform for participants to explore these transformations and examine the various perspectives shaping the contemporary stand on relationships/marriages. 

Key points discussed 

Changing Notions of Commitment 

The discussion kicked off with an exploration of how perceptions of commitment have evolved over time. This shifting landscape is influenced by a multitude of factors, including changing social norms, economic realities, advancements in technology, and evolving understandings of gender and sexuality. As a result, there are diverse demonstrations of perspectives and approaches towards relationships and marriage in current society. 

 “Too much availability for sex is a major reason why the gen z era relationships are not working” 

why relationships don’t last in the current society 

Participants brought out the issue of technology like social media and how it has changed how we connect with others. While they make it easy to meet people, they can also lead to quick, superficial connections. People might focus more on instant satisfaction and comparing themselves to others instead of building deep, lasting relationships. This can make it harder for relationships to last. 

Another reason brought out from the discussion was pressure to find a perfect partner who fulfills all of one’s emotional, social, and material needs. This unrealistic expectation can lead to disappointment and disillusionment when when partners fail to meet each other’s expectations. 

The major reasons that were brought out from the participants were Fear of Commitment, Communication Challenges and Financial Pressures. This fear can manifest as a reluctance to fully invest in relationships or a tendency to avoid long-term commitments altogether. 

Conclusion 

After discussing different viewpoints and experiences, people better understood how relationships are influenced by society, money, and culture. As the talk ended, everyone felt more aware of the challenges relationships face today. But they also felt hopeful about the chance for love and partnership to thrive in the future, even with all the changes happening around us.